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Experiencing Your Feelings

What it is

The practice of staying with an emotion — pay attention to it, breathe into it, let it move — until it completes its arc and the body returns to openness. Not analysis of the feeling, not management of it, not bypass. Direct experience.

The curriculum names this as the antidote to addiction. Every addiction (donuts, pills, scrolling, being right) is a strategy for not feeling something. Experiencing the feeling directly is what the addiction is substituting for.

It is also the load-bearing answer to the charge of “spiritual bypass.” EPI is not about transcending feelings into calm; it is the intensity of facing into the feeling so that the body can move it through.

The canonical six-step exercise

From the manual (Section I, p. 24, Exercise: Experiencing Your Feelings), read aloud by one practitioner (“the Speaker”) to another (“the Feeler”):

  1. Notice all the places in your body where you feel any particular sensations. Which one stands out the most?

  2. Let yourself notice that sensation. How would you describe the physical feelings?

  3. When you let yourself be aware of these physical sensations, and without thinking about it or trying to make sense of them, do they feel mostly like mad, sad, glad, scared, or sexual?

  4. Let yourself just hang out and notice what that particular feeling feels like in your body. Just observe it, don’t judge it. Breathe into it.

  5. As you are breathing into it, begin to wonder about what your body is trying to communicate to you with this feeling. Try not to make it make any sense. What do you know about why you feel that feeling? (Note: they may not know anything about it at all, which is fine.)

  6. Take a moment to appreciate yourself and your body for communicating with you so well.

The depth move

The exercise above is the structured form. The depth practice expands it:

  1. Locate the sensation. Where in the body is the feeling? (See sew — the S of SEW is the entry point.)
  2. Breathe into it. Attention plus breath is how the body digests emotion. Stay present with the sensation, do not turn away.
  3. Be with the emotion like a best friend. “Are you willing to feel as ____ as you are?” No fixing, no narrating, no escaping.
  4. Invite expression — bodify. Exaggerate the sensation or movement. Move. Sound. Let the body do what it wants to do. Containment is what has been keeping the feeling stuck; expression completes it.
  5. Notice the change. When the arc completes, the face changes, the sensation shifts, and there is openness underneath. Name what is present now in the body.

Why this is core

“This is our superpower: we can consciously regulate our molecules.” (Bruce Lipton, quoted in the curriculum.) Where awareness interfaces with matter is where the practitioner has real leverage — not over external circumstances, but over their own state. Change your state and you change your life.

The openness that arrives at the end of an emotion’s arc is a different fuel source than adrenaline or addiction. Practitioners describe it as aliveness — the sensation of being current with themselves.

Common misreads

  • Performing the emotion. Going through the motions without actually feeling. The body knows the difference; the arc does not complete.
  • Stopping before the arc finishes. Most people are trained to back off emotion at the first wave. The practice is staying until the body itself signals completion.
  • Confusing this with venting. Venting cycles the emotion in story; this practice rides the sensation underneath the story until it resolves.

Facets served

  • principle-2 — translating the body’s wisdom; this is Principle 2 at full volume.
  • principle-3 — the practice as presencing via SEW. This page is what the W of SEW becomes available through: until the emotion has moved, the want underneath is not accessible.

Source and attribution

Primary sources:

  • raw/The Colwell Practice Immersion Manual-v3 with cover.pdf, Section I, p. 24 (canonical Experiencing Your Feelings exercise by Julia B. Colwell, PhD).
  • raw/2025 ILC Version AT Master Curriculum.docx.md, Week 5 (Translating the Body’s Wisdom — Experiencing Your Feelings).

Lineage: Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks. Bruce Lipton (“We can consciously regulate our molecules.”) quoted in the ILC curriculum.

Status notes

canonical — canonical six-step exercise added 2026-05-25 from the Colwell Practice Immersion Manual v3 (p. 24). The 2026-05-24 ILC ingest established the page.

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